New Year’s Day
Substitute the words “far-out” and “mellow”
for every adjective. Then cool.
That’s how it was in 1973, forty years ago
and we were just a sparkle
in New Mexico’s eyes.
Then the years of “awesome,”
a persistent moniker
and lately “Really?”
in a sweet surprised voice
that lilts upwards, especially
near my grandchild.
The words may change, 2003,
The words may change, 2003,
the year bling hit the Oxford English.
But today itself is mellow and far out,
awesome and full of bling,
bling, and bling.
I knew this was a mere skeletal approach to my topic. How I react to word fads.
I am sure Shakespeare and I have this one thing in common. He did not resist the
new words of his faire tongue, and I do not either. I sometimes can't stand them, and react like a person with a rash. But I do hear them, take note, and sometimes slip them into
I took my little note pad out at Sue Farrington's famous Chimayo New Year's Day Party, I'd guess I have attended over 30 times. Thanks Sue. I asked the youngest folks in the room if they had anything to say about word fads. They said I'd asked the right people, Willa and Jerry, two musicians back form New York, late thirties. When I told them my love/hate reaction to words we became instant "besties" and here are some we added.
"Groovy" would go in with the Seventies and is one I love.
"Totally," "radical" or "rad," and "whatever" may slide into the Awesome generation.
Meanwhile, Johnny is alongside and suggests "Bitchin'." I tell him I will not accept that,
for it is very Beach Boys, too west coast (though I lived there a year) and not in my language surfing experience.
I think of "righteous" and Jerry suggests "wicked" which I feel is mostly Massachusetts where I did live for four years. So I accept it reluctantly. Johnny again said, "bitchin'" and I again say I never used that word and do not intend to, the female dog and negativity about women aside, it isn't something I have crossed paths with verbally. Now that the word "Bitch" is used both humorously, lovingly I guess, and in rap music non-stop, I am especially sensitive. Poison oak of language.
But I digress, I am still jotting like crazy, Robin says "neat " was up in the Fifties, in Los Alamos, and of course "Cool." I know people and a particular summer camp my kids went to where the only adjective on stock is "cool." Cool this and cool that. I liked what the camp had to offer except this one stop adjective.
"Epic," "Gnarly, " and "No way... Way" cropped up in the discussion, and I added "No doubt." It even became the name of a band. "Obtuse" was suggested and then Dave Best chimed in with "colloquial familiarism" as what I was looking for. The man looked like he could coin words like a slot machine could spin.
"Not" and "Word" occupy a ring of Dante' Hell. The "F Bomb" cropped up at my Ghost Ranch Class since the conference center is owned by Presbyterians and the college students respected my request for appropriate language. Not to censor but to attune.
Again Johnny insists, "Bitchin', bitchin.'" He gets his wife in on the act and says, "It we saw something we liked in a store, we'd say 'bitchin' right?"
"In high school," she didn't seem to like the word any more than I did. "I"ll put it in my writing"
I told Johnny to make him happy. He is a rad, gnarly sort of guy, a great skier and only missed surfing by a quirk of geography, being an Albuquerque kid. He does water ski.
Maybe it's a jock word, not a poet word. Now "jock," there's a visual word for you.
I have been trying to add a new word and see if it takes off. Today was really "dense."
That is so totally "dense." I see it as a positive like "ill" and "sick" have come to be.
Dave again, "That has mass." I swear he is a word factory.
My dear poet, Gerald Stern, when I took his class, spoke of his verbal prejudices, or maybe I made up that terms, anyhow, words he could not stand in a poem. "Compel" and "ponder," that kind of thing. In my verboten list I have "unique" which sometimes leads to "very unique." You probably could add your own word allergies.
But for today. May your New Year be sunny and dense.